YoungJRNY wrote:Behshad wrote:A true friend , best friend specially, wouldnt say " just go, but Im worried about your financial situation"..... she would GO WITH YOU!.... If she comes with you to Chicago , then she is a keeper .
She was actually the first person I asked to come along with me and I couldn't of been more privileged to take her! Problem is, she is so far in debt as it is in schooling that she saves every penny to her name to help out her mom, who is a single parent after her dad passed away some years ago. Last year, her cousin got married and now this year she's back to being the brides maid in her brothers wedding, so she's getting SLAMMED and that's typically where she worries about me and her with financial situations. I treat her to EVERYTHING imaginable but wouldn't even be able to help her out since Florida & school is her main priority.
WATCH that debt situation man. Very closely. Money issues with in laws tends to = control. I know a girl, nice as she can be, but she works a pretty simple job and has something ridiculous like $50,000 in student loans and two kids. Her marriage is extremely strained. Also know a 16-year old kid whose girlfriend's mother helped him move into their home with her daughter a few months ago. His family is seriously worried that she'll have him dropping out of school to get a job and help pay their bills.