conversationpc wrote:StevePerryHair wrote:I think it's so interesting that most of the men posting here don't see anything wrong with anything she did. And think it's necessary. Only one or two spoke up that she may have gone overboard, but it wasn't that bad. So far the only guy I know who has a strong stance against what she did, is my cop husband. Who sees this shit EVERYDAY, and weeds out the bullshit calls from the real calls of abuse in our city all the time. We are in the south, where it's even more prevalent. You people have blinders on! Seriously! Funny how it's mostly the mom's who have given birth and raised our babies who can't stomach this horrible shit for what it is, abuse. That's my last post. It's pointless.
I'd love to show you videos of what our daughter has done to us in the past and, like I said, she's made a lot progress since then. The stuff my wife has put up with make what was done to this child seem like a walk in the park. That doesn't make it right but there are many more children, and parents for that matter, out there that go through real abuse that leaves more than just a scar on the skin. I can't tell you how many times I've wanted to knock my daughter senseless because of the things she put my wife through on almost a daily basis for the first year after we adopted her. Most folks don't understand that there are often parents who are abused also.
I do understand that, and for parents in your situation it is a whole other level that most here would never understand. As a nurse who has worked with kids who have the same your daughter has, even I can't say I understand fully what you have had to face. The situations are two completely different levels and can't be compared fairly.
It's grey even for cops to determine, yet you are talking as an expert? 
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