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Archetype wrote:Such a shame. Deen became such a crucial part of their live show. So energetic, such awesome backing vocals and even better lead vocals. It's gonna be a long time before this gets sorted out.
Memorex wrote:
That said, let's also keep in mind the millions of people addicted to drugs and homeless, and without the resources that Deen has. We can all show support to one guy because we've seen him be decent and we like the way he plays and sings, but there is a whole lot of people a lot worse off that can also use our support. Most people haven't been given years and years of chances to play drums with a world class band and become a millionaire. Deen will be just fine if he gets the help he needs and makes some good decisions. Most folks with similar problems don't stand a tenth of that chance.
Archetype wrote:Memorex wrote:
That said, let's also keep in mind the millions of people addicted to drugs and homeless, and without the resources that Deen has. We can all show support to one guy because we've seen him be decent and we like the way he plays and sings, but there is a whole lot of people a lot worse off that can also use our support. Most people haven't been given years and years of chances to play drums with a world class band and become a millionaire. Deen will be just fine if he gets the help he needs and makes some good decisions. Most folks with similar problems don't stand a tenth of that chance.
This is the bottom line. I feel really bad about what has transpired recently with Deen, but in the end, his access to medical care, personal support and legal assistance is most likely unrivaled by any standard in the world. If he doesn't get his act together, he has no one but himself to blame. Neal even alluded to that in his facebook posting (helping in every way possible for many years). He's a world class drummer and vocalist. He was finally branching out a bit too with Revolution Saints, a guest appearance on the new Fear Factory album, and opening up a lot of great musical outlets. It would be such a pity to see all that be ruined for good on top of the potential demise of his stellar career with Journey.
Sundet wrote:Well, if what is alleged in the court records is true, and I have little reason to doubt it is, then Deen's cries of having had his life ruined may well suggest that he has just about been given the axe by Journey already. Though the band did not have any other choice, kicking him off the tour was pretty much a statement in its own right and, to me, the above comment from Neal Schon seems to suggest the band might have had enough. The band have indeed been very patient with him.
Sundet wrote:Well, if what is alleged in the court records is true, and I have little reason to doubt it is, then Deen's cries of having had his life ruined may well suggest that he has just about been given the axe by Journey already. Though the band did not have any other choice, kicking him off the tour was pretty much a statement in its own right and, to me, the above comment from Neal Schon seems to suggest the band might have had enough. The band have indeed been very patient with him.
Journey/Survivor wrote:The only circumstances in which Deen should be permanently replaced as Journey's drummer are if he's found guilty of rape. Or if Journey were already trying to get Steve Smith back in the band (Which was being reported by some) before this latest arrest.
He should not be replaced simply because it doesn't look good for the band, even though he was found not guilty.
The_Noble_Cause wrote:JourneyHard wrote:The time has come to get Steve Perry back.
The band's drummer just got accused of rape, not their singer. I don't follow.
Marabelle wrote:I agree with you on most of all your points except where you state Journey should support him. Nope. Not at all. Any support from anyone for an addict is that they have forgiven him. No contact from anyone. He has to truly do this alone. Allow him to feel the full range of emotions of shame and embarrassment and guilt and isolation. It's a long road for this man; I think perhaps he knows some where in that brain that he's possibly ended his career and relationships but if you give him any indication that you've forgiven him and will support him or even not forgiven him but will support him then everything in his mind is alright. He feels that he can get back on track long enough to get with the band and then he's back doing what he's been doing and the cycle continues.
The_Noble_Cause wrote:JourneyHard wrote:The time has come to get Steve Perry back.
The band's drummer just got accused of rape, not their singer. I don't follow.
Marabelle wrote:I agree with you on most of all your points except where you state Journey should support him. Nope. Not at all. Any support from anyone for an addict is that they have forgiven him. No contact from anyone. He has to truly do this alone. Allow him to feel the full range of emotions of shame and embarrassment and guilt and isolation. It's a long road for this man; I think perhaps he knows some where in that brain that he's possibly ended his career and relationships but if you give him any indication that you've forgiven him and will support him or even not forgiven him but will support him then everything in his mind is alright. He feels that he can get back on track long enough to get with the band and then he's back doing what he's been doing and the cycle continues.
JBlake wrote:Marabelle wrote:I agree with you on most of all your points except where you state Journey should support him. Nope. Not at all. Any support from anyone for an addict is that they have forgiven him. No contact from anyone. He has to truly do this alone. Allow him to feel the full range of emotions of shame and embarrassment and guilt and isolation. It's a long road for this man; I think perhaps he knows some where in that brain that he's possibly ended his career and relationships but if you give him any indication that you've forgiven him and will support him or even not forgiven him but will support him then everything in his mind is alright. He feels that he can get back on track long enough to get with the band and then he's back doing what he's been doing and the cycle continues.
Moral support is a big part of what they're talking about. Plus maybe help the guy out by paying for some professional help/rehab. Those are very reasonable things to do for a band (team) member wouldn't you think?
Cutting him off completely from communications, moral support, etc. is just alienating him which, depending on the individual, could be very destructive.
Monker wrote:You know, after reading this thread, I really hope they finish the tour Hakim, plan a tour next year with Steve Smith and Gregg Rolie. After that, get a long term gig in Vegas and just add a session drummer, or Mugs...give an open invite to all past members of the band to join them at any time.
And, put a halt to touring for good. Things are just at a point where they really have to ask themselves if it is still worth it.
Monker wrote:You know, after reading this thread, I really hope they finish the tour Hakim, plan a tour next year with Steve Smith and Gregg Rolie. After that, get a long term gig in Vegas and just add a session drummer, or Mugs...give an open invite to all past members of the band to join them at any time.
And, put a halt to touring for good. Things are just at a point where they really have to ask themselves if it is still worth it.
steveo777 wrote:Any idea how many peeps were at that show? I heard over 60,000. That's huge!
JBlake wrote:I always thought that touring benefitted the band for a number of reasons. But (IMO) if they want to continue to go on prosperous tours, they need to produce new material and play it on those tours. Classic Journey is "cool" to listen to and all, but I'm more interested in hearing, seeing performances of, and purchasing NEW Journey material.
brywool wrote:JBlake wrote:I always thought that touring benefitted the band for a number of reasons. But (IMO) if they want to continue to go on prosperous tours, they need to produce new material and play it on those tours. Classic Journey is "cool" to listen to and all, but I'm more interested in hearing, seeing performances of, and purchasing NEW Journey material.
Unfortunately, new material only seems to work for the hardcore fans. Most people hear new material and think "Bathroom break". That's GOTTA suck.
JBlake wrote:Revelation was the last Journey album I purchased. I'd love to buy a new one if they would have a new album consisting of fresh new tracks.
Sundet wrote:Well, if what is alleged in the court records is true, and I have little reason to doubt it is
DracIsBack wrote:Sundet wrote:Well, if what is alleged in the court records is true, and I have little reason to doubt it is
This is what bothers me about "trial by media". You weren't *there*. You didn't *see* what went down. You *haven't* sat on a jury. You haven't gone through the *prosecution's case*, but yet you've already convicted the man.
I agree - it doesn't look good. But for the love of god, let a jury do its job.
Sorry, but I'm on a tear about this. I just witnessed another woman on Twitter referring to someone else who defended Bill Cosby's right to a trial and right to be convicted by a jury (Note: wasn't actually defending Bill Cosby himself) as a "rapist" for "defending him." (aka. "Let a jury decide his fate")
Court of public opinion is a nasty thing. Whether innocent or guilty, Dean's career is likely already over because of the court of public opinion.
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